The Youth Pastor’s Wife Podcast
Being a youth pastor’s wife is tough, isn’t it? You’re trying to balance ministry and family. You’re feeling the pressure to be perfect. You’re dealing with teenagers all the time. You’re trying to lead a small group. You’re struggling to find time to rest. You’re feeling overwhelmed, overlooked, and over-committed. Like I said, it’s a tough job. And on top of that, it can also feel lonely because being a youth pastor’s wife has a unique set of challenges compared to what other ministry wives might face. In this podcast, you will learn how to navigate those challenges that come with being a youth pastor’s wife and find the strength to keep showing up in your ministry and in your marriage. My goal is to help you find balance and fulfillment by giving you practical tools to invest in students, support your husband, and grow spiritually. If you’re ready to step into this incredible calling God has placed on your life, then this podcast is for you! Hey friend, I’m Kristen. I am a follower of Jesus, and of course, a youth pastor’s wife. I have learned firsthand that yes, serving students with your husband is super fun, but it can also be really challenging. Ministry is messy. Marriage has its ups and downs. And the expectations for a pastor’s wife aren’t exactly underwhelming. But I’m learning how to fully embrace this role God has given me as the youth pastor’s wife by discipling our students well, loving and supporting my husband in his role, and living by God’s standard for me rather than trying to be the “perfect pastor’s wife.” And I want to share all that I am learning with you so we can walk this journey together! That’s why I created this podcast! So if you want to learn how to live out your calling as you serve in student ministry, invest in your husband and your marriage, and say goodbye to people-pleasing and perfectionism, you’re in the right place! Welcome to The Youth Pastor’s Wife Podcast!
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Tuesday Jan 21, 2025
Tuesday Jan 21, 2025
Let’s be real—ministry life is busy, and sometimes it feels like every conversation with your husband revolves around church stuff. But your marriage is about more than just serving together; it’s about actually enjoying life together. So how do you make sure your relationship stays strong beyond Sunday mornings and church events?
In this episode, we’re talking about simple, intentional ways to invest in your marriage outside of ministry. I’ll share some practical ideas to help you prioritize your relationship, reconnect in the middle of the chaos, and just have fun together again. Whether you’re feeling a little disconnected or just want to be more intentional about your marriage, this episode is here to encourage you and give you fresh ways to love your husband well!
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Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
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Tuesday Jan 14, 2025
Tuesday Jan 14, 2025
Have you ever wondered what your purpose really is as a youth pastor’s wife? Maybe you feel like you’re just there to support your husband, but deep down, you’re asking, "Does Jesus have something specific for me too?"
In this episode, we’re diving into what it truly means to walk in the calling Jesus has for you as a youth pastor's wife. I’ll share my own journey of figuring this out—the questions I wrestled with, the struggles I faced, and the lessons God has taught me along the way. And I'll help you understand how to live out the unique calling God has for you and use the gifts He's given you to fulfill His purpose for your life!
No matter where you are on this journey, you are not just a supporting role—you have a purpose that’s meaningful, intentional, and God-designed!
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Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
Have a question or topic suggestion for a future episode? Share it with me here!
Follow me on Instagram - @kristenalexiscave
Tuesday Jan 07, 2025
Tuesday Jan 07, 2025
Does it ever feel like ministry is taking over your life, and your family is getting the leftovers? You’re not alone! Balancing family and ministry can be really hard, but it doesn’t have to feel impossible.
In this episode, I'm giving you three simple systems that can help you protect your time, prioritize your people, and still serve your church well. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, stretched too thin, or just looking for a little more peace in your schedule, these practical tips will help you create more balance—without guilt.
Don’t forget to hit subscribe and leave a rating and review if you found this episode helpful!
Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
Have a question or topic suggestion for a future episode? Share it with me here!
Follow me on Instagram - @kristenalexiscave
Tuesday Dec 31, 2024
Tuesday Dec 31, 2024
Has being in ministry ever left you feeling lonely? Have you been hoping and praying for a solid support system but not known where to start or who to reach out to?
If that's you, friend, this episode is for you! I'm going to give you a step-by-step guide to building a strong, encouraging, life-changing support system to walk alongside you in your ministry, your marriage, and everything in between.
We’ll chat about who to include in your circle, how to find those people, and why setting boundaries is just as important as building connections. You don’t have to carry the weight of ministry by yourself, and you’re not meant to.
One of the best things I've ever done being in ministry is built a strong support system, and I want you to be able to say the same!
Don’t forget to hit subscribe and leave a rating and review if you found this episode helpful!
Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
Have a question or topic suggestion for a future episode? Share it with me here!
Follow me on Instagram - @kristenalexiscave
Tuesday Dec 24, 2024
Tuesday Dec 24, 2024
Let’s be real—connecting with teenagers can feel like trying to crack a secret code. But it doesn’t have to be that hard! In this episode of The Youth Pastor’s Wife Podcast, we’re keeping it super practical as I share 10 tips for building real, meaningful relationships with the students in your youth group.
Whether you’ve been doing youth ministry for years or you're still trying to figure out how to get students to talk to you, this episode has something for you. And if you commit to implementing these 10 tips, I can promise you'll start earn the trust of your students and build connections that last!
Don’t forget to hit subscribe and leave a rating and review if you found this episode helpful!
Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
Have a question or topic suggestion for a future episode? Share it with me here!
Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
When I stepped into the role of a youth pastor’s wife, I quickly realized there was so much I didn’t know—and let’s just say I learned a few things the hard way!
In this episode, I’m sharing five lessons I wish someone had told me before I started. From balancing a very abnormal schedule to handling other people's opinions (because oh boy, people will have them), this is the advice I wish I’d had in my back pocket from day one.
Whether you’re just stepping into this role or you’ve been doing it for years, I hope this episode feels like sitting down with a friend who gets it. You’re not alone, and you don’t have to figure it all out by yourself. So join me as we talk about the 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Became A Youth Pastor's Wife.
Don’t forget to hit subscribe and leave a rating and review if you found this episode helpful!
Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
Have a question or topic suggestion for a future episode? Share it with me here!
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
If you’ve ever felt the weight of trying to have it all together or meet everyone’s expectations as a pastor’s wife, you’re not alone.
In this episode, I’m sharing all about those pressures and what’s helped me stop striving for perfection and start leaning into authenticity.
I’ll walk you through some lessons I’ve learned first hand and offer practical tips to help you let go of the unrealistic standards that can leave you feeling overwhelmed. My prayer is that this episode will remind you that God didn’t call you to be perfect—He called you to be faithful.
So, grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s have an honest conversation about finding freedom from the pressure to be perfect. You’ve got this, friend!
Don’t forget to hit subscribe and leave a rating and review if you found this episode helpful!
Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
Have a question or topic suggestion for a future episode? Share it with me here!
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Partnering with your husband in youth ministry can be rewarding, but it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or stretched too thin. In this episode, we’re tackling the big question: How can you support your husband in ministry without overcommitting or burning out?
I’ll share practical tips like how to define your role, protect your time off, recharge when you’re feeling drained, and more. Along the way, I’ll also share a personal story about how I learned (the hard way!) to set healthy boundaries.
If you’ve ever struggled to balance ministry, marriage, and your own well-being, this episode is packed with encouragement and actionable steps to help you!
Don’t forget to hit subscribe and leave a rating and review if you found this episode helpful!
Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
Have a question or topic suggestion for a future episode? Share it with me here!
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Being a youth pastor's wife isn't easy, is it? You're trying to balance ministry, marriage, and expectations that can all feel overwhelming. But the good news is, you don't have to figure it out alone!
This podcast is here to help you navigate the unique challenges of being a youth pastor’s wife while offering encouragement, practical tips, and a whole lot of grace.
In this first episode, I’ll introduce myself—your host, Kristen—and share my heart and the vision behind this podcast. I’ll also give you a sneak peek into upcoming episodes, where we’ll tackle topics like setting healthy boundaries, supporting your husband well, and finding joy in serving students.
Whether you’re new to this role or a seasoned ministry partner, this space is for you. Let’s grow together as we embrace the calling God has placed on our lives!
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Join the Facebook group - The Youth Pastor's Wife Podcast Community - to connect with Kristen and other youth pastors' wives!
Have a question or topic suggestion for a future episode? Share it with me here!
Monday Nov 18, 2024
Monday Nov 18, 2024
Welcome to The Youth Pastor’s Wife Podcast, where you can find practical tips and heartfelt encouragement for navigating ministry and marriage as a youth pastor’s wife.
Tune in on December 10th for the premiere episode of the show!